The First Step
When You Get In
Your Own Way

By Saint Matteo

April 1, 2024

Photograph by Mizuno K  

Becoming better and achieving success isn’t just about talent or luck; it’s about perseverance, determination, and, sometimes, getting out of your own way. Recognizing moments when self-doubt creeps in, fear of failure paralyzes you, or when procrastination becomes a daily habit and making the changes to get out of that routine.  

One of the biggest obstacles to success and growth is within oneself. It’s the excuses we make, the distractions we indulge in, and the comfort zone we stay in too long.

But here’s the thing: Acknowledging this is the first step towards overcoming it. It’s about taking ownership of where you are, confronting your fears, not worrying about what other people think, and pushing past what you THINK are your limitations. Remember that failure is a stepping stone rather than a stumbling block and that success often lies on the other side.

So, next time you realize you are standing your own way, take a moment to reassess and remember that the only thing truly holding you back is you. Take the first step forward, no matter how hard it may feel, and watch as the path to growth and success becomes more apparent day by day.